Knowing When To Say Yes

My hope is that women find the man that is right for them.  I mean that in all situations because frankly not ever woman deserves a good man and vice versa. The problem seems to come when I guess as they call it opposites attract. Its fine when you find someone that had different interest from you, that's what makes us individual but there has got to be some common interest as well. That's where your balance comes in. You can enjoy everything that he does but how much of what you do does he enjoy and even support or participate in? Sometimes we women settle for so much less than our worth. Women with bad intentions well you B*** get what you deserve! But for the good ones, hardworking beautiful and ready for someone authentic-I sincerely hope you don't get bamboozled by the wrong guy. As for me, I- truthfully I'm not even sure. I am a good woman(by heart) and bad(by experiences) yet I'm not giving my all, not right now anyway. My super strong woman days are behind me but my connecting with the deeper woman within is here. I don't want to say there is not a man out there for me, of course there is, there's plenty. Plenty of which I'm greeted by daily. Woman, cant you just look at a guy sometimes and just know or feel that he's the one? Well, that's who I choose. Maybe that's why I always find myself in trouble but you know what...It was good while it lasted, right? Exactly and that's the mentality that I'm leaving behind along with those type of men. Smooth on the surface but rough on the insides. I've had enough!!