10 reasons.....

So I was sitting home writing and a new show on TV caught my attention. As I tried to concentrate a young lady began to cry on some show called love addict. She was saying how every man she has ever had has used her in some way. My heart broke for this young lady. She was attractive(I can't say much more about her I'm not familiar with the show) but i do know my heart broke for her. I think in love everybody plays the fool sometimes just like the song says. Some woman know they are being a fool and they are okay with it and some women are to oblivious to sometimes the obvious. Which woman are you? We all want and need love but at what cost? I have included a link for woman to read. 10 reasons you my be in a manipulative relationship.

voices.yahoo.com/10-signs-manipulative-relationship-3301684.html

Knowing When To Say Yes

My hope is that women find the man that is right for them.  I mean that in all situations because frankly not ever woman deserves a good man and vice versa. The problem seems to come when I guess as they call it opposites attract. Its fine when you find someone that had different interest from you, that's what makes us individual but there has got to be some common interest as well. That's where your balance comes in. You can enjoy everything that he does but how much of what you do does he enjoy and even support or participate in? Sometimes we women settle for so much less than our worth. Women with bad intentions well you B*** get what you deserve! But for the good ones, hardworking beautiful and ready for someone authentic-I sincerely hope you don't get bamboozled by the wrong guy. As for me, I- truthfully I'm not even sure. I am a good woman(by heart) and bad(by experiences) yet I'm not giving my all, not right now anyway. My super strong woman days are behind me but my connecting with the deeper woman within is here. I don't want to say there is not a man out there for me, of course there is, there's plenty. Plenty of which I'm greeted by daily. Woman, cant you just look at a guy sometimes and just know or feel that he's the one? Well, that's who I choose. Maybe that's why I always find myself in trouble but you know what...It was good while it lasted, right? Exactly and that's the mentality that I'm leaving behind along with those type of men. Smooth on the surface but rough on the insides. I've had enough!!

Have You Ever?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=0YIupahFe94(Have You Ever-Brandy)

If you have someone special in your life stop what you doing and give them a call. A CALL not a text. You can even follow that up with a hug. Sometimes we dont even take the time to let them know how much they really do mean to us. Now is the time. Go on....do it now!

Handle Your Business

Okay so my fellows, I need to hear from you. If your female friend(you know you all have them) inappropriately disrespects your wife/girlfriend how would you handle the situation? And vice versa, woman answer that one too. Lets discuss this. Its happening everday!

RECOGNIZE YOUR GRIFTER

LADIES, HAVE YOU ENCOUNTERED YOUR GRIFTER? THAT MAN THAT ALWAYS SEEMS TO BE IN AND OUT OF YOUR LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO  YOU CAN'T KEEP HIM NEAR?  IF YOU HAVE THEN JUST KNOW THAT IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S HIM. THE GRIFTER MOVES CONTINUOUSLY AND NINE OUT OF TEN HIS INTENTIONS ARE NOT GOOD. HE IS ON THE PROWL. LURKING AND LOOKING FOR SOMEONE LIKE YOU(US) TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF, MANIPULATE, AND FRUSTRATE. IF YOU HAVE ENCOUNTERED YOUR GRIFTER, CHANCES ARE (YOU ARE OR WAS) SO CONFUSED AT THE TIME THAT YOU COULDN'T EVEN RECOGNIZE THE SIGNS. YOU PROBABLY SPENT COUNTLESS NIGHTS CRYING OR WONDERING WHY YOU WERE GOING THROUGH WHAT YOU WERE GOING THROUGH. IT WAS NEVER YOU. BUT THE QUESTION IS: WHAT DO YOU DO ABOUT IT?
www.thefreedictionary.com/grifter

AFTER YOU'VE SETTLED INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP (NOT NECESSARILY MOVED IN) HOWEVER, YOU FIND THAT YOUR GIRL/MAN  NO LONGER COMMUNICATES WITH YOU LIKE THEY ONCE DID. AFTER SEVERAL ATTEMPTS TO GET THINGS BACK TO THE WAY THEY USE TO BE, YOU NOTICE NO CHANGE.  IN FACT IT'S EVEN WORSE NOW! WHAT DO YOU DO?
(there will be no poll for this question. I want to hear you voice. talk to me.)

QUESTION:MEN:  IF YOUR LADY GETS A HUGE SALARY INCREASE AND SHE NOW MAKES MORE THAN YOU, WILL YOU FEEL INTIMIDATED?

WOMEN: YOU MET A GUY AND YOU LIKE HIM YET YOU FIND OUT LATER THAT HE HAS NO JOB, WHAT DO YOU DO?

PEOPLE. I POST THESE QUESTIONS FOR FEEDBACK FROM BOTH MEN AND WOMEN. HELP US UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER AND KEEP IT REAL. THE BEAUTY HERE IS YOU CAN BE YOURSELF. THE MORE FEEDBACK, THE BETTER THE UNDERSTANDING.